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Thursday, October 16, 2008
A BIRD'S EYE VIEW OF THE KIDS...LIVING IN THE MOMENT
A comment from judie on one of my blogs says she will try to just live in the moment for the day, that things go better that way. It occurs to me tha when the twins come for the day, that's how we do spend the day, constantly in the moment. And that's what makes it so much fun and so delightful...no time to worry about anything much. We just try to keep up to them and we are almost always doing what they want to do, getting them snacks, or reading stories, or breaking up little fights, whatever. We are very involved with what's happening at the moment. At the end of the day, I am tired, but not really exhausted, worn out, but in a balanced way. Maybe knowing we will both sleep and rest is somehow more restful. My mind is too tired to worry about much more than just sitting down for a bit with a book and going to bed. If I'm seeing them tomorrow, well, tomorrow will get here as scheduled and we will start it out brand-new, clean slate, not too much expectations. It's a good idea, to live in the moment. I think it's a healthy idea, not always easy to do, but worth the effort.
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"Sometimes he would get so swept up in ideas, you had to chase him around with a butterfly net."
quote from page 184 [THE SOCIAL ANIMAL] by David Brooks
2 comments:
This is a great post. I think I RARELY live in the moment. It's almost like I feel like it's "wrong" and we are supposed to always be one step ahead of ourselves- planning our lives, avoiding sin or any other mistake by preparing now, always being in control. (Control, that's the issue for me. It would be sinful to ever be out of control and certainly we can control the future by preparing for it!).
These things are important I'm sure. But sometimes I think they bog me down. Sometimes I've actually felt life trying to tell me to just do what I can or have to or even WANT to today and have some faith in life and God and even myself.
I think you are lucky if life is telling you that, or that you HEAR it telling you that. I think some of us just wind up with heart attacks or sprained ankles. It's really good for me to have the twins over, sort of clears the air or something. James again asked about family get togethers. Let's get something going soon. There's a Halloween party at the ward on the 25th. I like to take the younger kids to that along with everyone else. Susan promises some great spook alleys "made out of cardboard boxes." She's so funny. You and Jeff should come. Then we could come back home for something special. The twins ask about you quite a lot...you'd be surprised.
I really like your last sentence here. I'm going to listen for those whispers too.
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